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Consent, part 1

Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…

… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.

And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault! 

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.
Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.
Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes. 

Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary! We talk about some of the go-to questions before you negotiate a scene with someone new. Have others we don’t cover here? Let us know!

Some of the Spanko!Podcast spankees have had less than pleasant scenes this past year, and we want everyone to learn these important topics with spanking so everyone can have a good time!  

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.

 

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Miss Chris, pt. 2

We now continue our interview with the world-famous disciplinarian, Miss Chris!

Be sure to check out the first part of our interview here.

From her beginnings in the scene, to her earliest thoughts about spanking, to her international travels and so much more, Miss Chris regales us, and our returning guests from MDSS, with tales and experiences across a whole spectrum of spanking!

If you’ve ever wondered about the difference between the BDSM and Spanking scenes,  or the US and European scenes when it comes to Spanking (or CP as they may call it), the evolution of education in the spanking scene, or what makes a Texas Toy, or a pizzle, a unique spanking implement, Miss Chris has stories and information about all of this and so much more!

This is the conclusion of an epic interview you won’t want to miss!

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Miss Chris, pt. 1

Behold! The storytelling power of the world-famous disciplinarian, Miss Chris!

From her national television appearance on The Doctors (where she spanked all three doctors, BTW) Miss Chris now appears on Spanko! Podcast alongside a gaggle of other Spankoholics.

Join us, and our returning guests from MDSS, as Miss Chris regales us with an intense tale of her surprising beginnings as a bottom quickly turned professional dominant with the help of a miracle folding chair. Yeah, no kidding!

With her professionalism, her Bed & Breakfast, her Spankademy and her Disciplinarium, to her wisdom about tickling the senses, and a lot of other fun wordplay, we now know who really has the best words! 

And there’s a lot more to come from Miss Chris, too! This is part one of an epic interview you won’t want to miss!

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Different Scene Dynamics

From a FetLife Fan request: Can the Spankoholics differentiate the types of scene dynamics?

Yikes! What a question! Are we up to the challenge?

 

The Spankaholics return to have an open discussion on different types of spanking scenes and stumble on some self realizations.  

We discuss differences between Funishment scenes and  Role Play scenes THEN we stumble upon Consequential spankings which lead us to Punishment vs Discipline vs Motivational vs Accountability vs Consequential scenes again. Even dab a little in Judicial spanking. 

They continue to avoid discussing sexual and sensual spankings. This group of spankos tends to publicly avoid sharing sexaul aspects of spanking. So if you were hoping to have that be one of your spanking scenes discussions, we don’t apologize. Maybe one day we will come around. 

Anyways, what do you think is a good baseline spanking? Let us know down below in the comments, on Twitter, YouTube, or on FetLife.

 

 

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Loren Punishments

The Spanko! Podcast hosts continue to interrogate Loren regarding his spanking lifestyle.

Loren shares his stance on public spanking. They all share their preferences on counting swats. Everyone has a good time reminiscing on Lone Star 2021.

We promise, Part 2 is not a repeat of part 1. You’ll delight listening to part two even more.

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