Non-Spanko Partners

So, your partner is a spanko.

We’ve talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spanko partners themselves! 

Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren’t one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us to join in some of their discussions. 

If you have a vanilla partner in your life, or a spanko partner whose interest you may not fully grasp, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

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School Role Plays at GASP

Teachers, Principals, Fraternity & Sorority Hazing: What is it about school role plays that spankos find so fascinating? 

We sat down (some of us more comfortably than others) after doing many different school-themed role plays at GASP 2024 and talked with some of the participants (on both sides of the paddle) to find out! 

We discuss all aspects of the school events, from organization and planning, to playing the principal and the naughty sorority pledge. While, of course, we each have our own personal reasons for enjoying school-themed play, you’ll be amazed at how much we have in common. 

If you haven’t tried a school role-play yourself, perhaps this episode may pique your interest, or kindle some new ideas! 

Is that the school bell I hear? You’d best behave!

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GASP 2025

All right, Spankos! GASP 2025 registration is here! It’s been here! So listen up to hear NotSoKnotty and Listener’s invite to join in Atlanta, GA on March 20-24th 2025. 

We’ve seen posts asking about the theme. I would say drumroll… However you’re just going to have to listen and find out. 

Are you ready to be included at GASP 2025? (Because did you know that you’re welcome, whether you’re trans, straight, and or even cisgendered? *GASP*)

They have:

  • blanket forts for Littles 
  • A principal’s office for naughty students 
  • Immersive school events 
  • Spanking Court
  • A dungeon – run by a local BDSM group
  • classes which you can attend to learn and grow
  • And of course all the spanking friends you could possibly hope to meet.

All of this put forth by chaos gremlin spankos as well as type-A organizer tops.

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Impact Play with Mr. Ben

Impact Play!? **Gasp!?** Some Spankos will cringe upon hearing spanking being referred to as “impact play.”

However, do you remember looking up “Spanking” in the dictionary? 

to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand. 

We are literally having buttocks struck – causing impact – with either the hand or some sort of implement. 

“But it’s spanking! Stop ruining the sanctity of *my* fantasy.”

 

Join us as Mr. Ben shares with us his knowledge on what we as the Spanko- purist can learn from the BDSM community as far as communication and  consent. 

We can still learn and do better as a community as a whole. We owe ourselves this. A top is allowing themselves to strike another individual – pretty much assault – unless the receiver has consented. 

We hope this episode will leave an impact!

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Lone Star 2024

An evening of Glitter and Glam, or an evening at a creepy carnival? Why not have both, and so much more! These are the themes for the Lone Star Spanking Party 2024

November 7-11, 2024

Join Sarah Gregory and Paul “Tubaman” Rogers as they tell us all about everything we can expect at Lonestar 2024:
Brats, Littles, Breakfasts, Brunches, Male Events, Female Events, and so much more!

We hope to see you there!

But you’d better hurry, tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

And BE SURE TO USE THE LINK IN YOUR EMAIL (from ShowPass) TO REGISTER!! 

There is NO at-the-door Registration this year.
So if you want to come to the party, don’t procrastinate!

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