Kink-Affirming Therapist

Join us as we talk with JoJo Shenanigans, a brat, spanko, kink-affirming therapist, and life coach.  She describes her spanko spark, and how she came into the spanko scene to explore her interests. 

She shares tips on handling how *YOUR* story (culture, religion, upbringing) impacts your spanking interests. JoJo shares how you can navigate and understand your kink, and process  your thoughts with a therapist in order to thrive. 

She encourages us to be kind to ourselves, give ourselves space to learn and deal with topics such as shame, overcoming views from upbring and religion. Let’s face it, growing and learning to love yourself without shame IS A PROCESS… a process worth experiencing for your own well being. 

Listen as we explore questions to ask yourself in order to understand yourself and your needs in the scene and dynamics. Knowing that there are lots of different kink and spanko flavors. 

It’s your spanko story, make it the best one you can. 

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Impact Play with Mr. Ben

Impact Play!? **Gasp!?** Some Spankos will cringe upon hearing spanking being referred to as “impact play.”

However, do you remember looking up “Spanking” in the dictionary? 

to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand. 

We are literally having buttocks struck – causing impact – with either the hand or some sort of implement. 

“But it’s spanking! Stop ruining the sanctity of *my* fantasy.”

 

Join us as Mr. Ben shares with us his knowledge on what we as the Spanko- purist can learn from the BDSM community as far as communication and  consent. 

We can still learn and do better as a community as a whole. We owe ourselves this. A top is allowing themselves to strike another individual – pretty much assault – unless the receiver has consented. 

We hope this episode will leave an impact!

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