Episode 0113 – Impact Play with Mr. Ben

Posted on November 22, 2024November 21, 2024 by SpankoPodcast Team

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Impact Play with Mr. Ben

Impact Play!? **Gasp!?** Some Spankos will cringe upon hearing spanking being referred to as “impact play.”

However, do you remember looking up “Spanking” in the dictionary?

to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand.

We are literally having buttocks struck – causing impact – with either the hand or some sort of implement.

“But it’s spanking! Stop ruining the sanctity of *my* fantasy.”

Join us as Mr. Ben shares with us his knowledge on what we as the Spanko- purist can learn from the BDSM community as far as communication and consent.

We can still learn and do better as a community as a whole. We owe ourselves this. A top is allowing themselves to strike another individual – pretty much assault – unless the receiver has consented.

We hope this episode will leave an impact!

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Episode 0106 – Spanking University with Princess Kelley May

Posted on August 16, 2024August 15, 2024 by SpankoPodcast Team

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Spanking University with Princess Kelley May

Education is so important in Kink. Both SpankoPodcast and Princess Kelley May both feel strongly about promoting education in the spanking scene.

Possibly the busiest woman we know, Princess Kelley May was able to sit down with us at GASP and was generous enough to share a few minutes of her time.

Join us as we discuss Spanking University, her YouTube Channel, her passion for education, and many other related topics that are important to us as spankos including:

Consent
Limits
Boundaries
Safewords
Self-Advocacy
Technical Proficiency
And More

*We apologize for the audio quality, there was a computer issue that occurred during recording which was not noticeable until editing. (It gets better as you listen.)

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SpankoPodcast2Go 005 – Communication at Parties

Posted on March 15, 2024March 16, 2024 by SpankoPodcast Team

Communication at Parties

Sky and Eric were traveling home from a small house party and decided to record a discussion about the necessity of communicating while at parties. And yes, of course this all stemmed from Karina and some of her antics.

It can be difficult to ask for what you want, but it’s important to be able to use your words. And since people communicate differently at parties than they may at home, we’ll give you some personal examples as to why good communication is important.

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Episode 0078 – Shaylah

Posted on July 7, 2023July 6, 2023 by SpankoPodcast Team

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Shaylah

Shaylah elegantly gives us extremely articulate advice for tops who are disciplinarians; beyond the “funishment” mindset, punishments for real-life offenses. **Swoon** scold-y spankings with controlled, loving, aggression – stern and firm.

Definitely check out this episode if discipline is your thing. It doesn’t matter if you’re new or experienced with spanking, she provides great information!

What was Shaylah’s first foray into spanking? What has she learned about consent since then? We hope our listeners practice consent and if you need a reminder, here is a link to one of the many episodes where we discuss Consent.

Shaylah is a girl, she is a brat, she is a writer, she is trans, and she identifies as a spanking facilitator – all the brats now have a new term of defense!

Now, don’t feel bad if you’re not ready to be the spanker or spankee of trans women. However, please be respectful of their identities. Don’t be an asshole, or you’ll have allies to answer to!

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Episode 0063 – Consent, part 2

Posted on December 9, 2022December 8, 2022 by SpankoPodcast Team

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Consent, part 2

As if one episode on Consent wasn’t enough, here is part two!
Didn’t we already do a Consent episode? Well, yes, a couple of them…

… but this important topic is something that should be in the forefront of everyone’s mind during any spanking activities.

And clearly some of these points have fallen on deaf ears. So we’re back to talk about consent with some recent personal examples.

To be blunt: Consent can be the difference between a spanking and sexual assault!

Tops need to listen and comply with the safe words when they’re used.

Bottoms have to use their safe words when needed and vocalize their boundaries and limits.

Communication, whether verbal or non verbal is key for enjoyable scenes.

Consent isn’t always sexy – negotiation can be awkward, but it’s necessary!

You live and learn to be more explicit with your limits so that your boundaries are not crossed. We hope our experiences can help you learn to avoid some of these pitfalls.

If your consent is broken or your safe word is ignored and your boundaries are not respected, here are some helpful resources for sexual assault victims: