PTSD and Spanking

Trigger Warnings: Trauma, War, PTSD, Childhood Abuse. 

PTSD – Post Traumatic Stress Disorder – a condition brought about by trauma and diagnosed by a professional. Please reach out to a professional to be treated and diagnosed. 

We have the brave Mark, the Very Bad Boy, and a military veteran, joining us to share his experiences as a male bottom into spanking with PTSD. Mark shares how he worked with professionals to be diagnosed and begin his well-being process. 

Triggered by loud noises, Mark still enjoys his spanking, but it has been a challenge to work through. Mark shares his journey, how he handles his triggers and how he worked with a professional spanking domme to gently overcome his fears from childhood.

Fortunately for veterans in the U.S., the V.A. offers quality resources, you just have to be able to get through all the paperwork, and fortunately, they’ll also have someone to assist you with that  as well! 

Please be kind to those around you, we never know what someone is going through.
Please be responsible and seek help. We all have our own timelines, but we are still responsible for how we allow triggers to affect us. We can’t control who or what is going to trigger us, but we can choose how to respond. There are professionals who will work with you, either with your mental health or, potentially, even a professional spanker. 

Thank you to all of our service members!!

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From Bottom To Top

You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be. 

Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming. 

Anything a guy does, a girl can do- while wearing heels AND even bleeding. 

Now, do we have any male Bottoms out there who’ve grown to be a Top as well? 

Perhaps you’re like Karina and you’ve been happy remaining a Bottom. Do what works for you. 

Don’t forget – Tops need aftercare too. Check in with your Tops  and remind them how amazing they are!

Tops, please be open to feedback – it’s how we grow. 

So, if you’ve ever wondered how some Tops get to spank everyone and people barely reluctantly agree to play with you, listen in and learn a thing or two, you might get to play more.

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Kink-Affirming Therapist

Join us as we talk with JoJo Shenanigans, a brat, spanko, kink-affirming therapist, and life coach.  She describes her spanko spark, and how she came into the spanko scene to explore her interests. 

She shares tips on handling how *YOUR* story (culture, religion, upbringing) impacts your spanking interests. JoJo shares how you can navigate and understand your kink, and process  your thoughts with a therapist in order to thrive. 

She encourages us to be kind to ourselves, give ourselves space to learn and deal with topics such as shame, overcoming views from upbring and religion. Let’s face it, growing and learning to love yourself without shame IS A PROCESS… a process worth experiencing for your own well being. 

Listen as we explore questions to ask yourself in order to understand yourself and your needs in the scene and dynamics. Knowing that there are lots of different kink and spanko flavors. 

It’s your spanko story, make it the best one you can. 

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Matilda Caesar

Swish… Crack… Do you love the sound of a cane? Our guest, Matilda Caesar, does. Get to know this professional spankee from London, England and some of her very favorite spanking things!

She regails us with tales of her adventures in the London spanking scene, some mansion roleplays, her origins as a professional, and how a photoshoot changed her life! 

This beautiful, life-long spanko opens up with us about some of her innermost thoughts, desires, and even some of the spanking fantasies she enjoys personally… and the importance of keeping some things just for yourself!

Did we mention she does some video modeling as well?
You can find her working with Miss Iceni, and soon from some other studios as well.
If you don’t know Matilda Caesar yet, you will soon!

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Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service

Shaylah, sorry, MISS Shaylah, is back and she brought some friends along to discuss Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service. 

Miss Shaylah briefly touched on offering this service on a previous episode, but we wanted to know more. Mr. Ben and Sarah (from Canada) have partaken in this special service, and they wanted to share their thoughts as well. 

Not only is this a very special and unique service offered by a wonderfully skilled member of our community, her patrons speak about the glowing results! We hear from both a Top (Mr. Ben) and a Bottom (Sarah) about what this service was like for them. It’s not just cornertime, it’s so much more! It’s a whole experience, especially tailored just for you!

Parties can be overwhelming, sometimes you just need a time out. Come hear how Miss Shaylah offers this service to provide the headspace you need to relax and respect yourself! If this sounds like something you need, reach out and inquire about Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service. 

We had a great time hanging out with these wonderful people, and we hope you do too! Come and listen to Sarah squirm with embarrassment… even before her next session!

 

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